Journal

Getting called out in a loving way

I am grateful to have people in my life, who are not afraid to call me out for my behaviour …

Far too often, when I look at others and get jealous by their relationship, I find myself asking …

There have been times in church recently where my natural tendency to compare myself to others has …

For a long time, my jealousy was fuelled by people having something which I want and don’t …

I was at a conference this week and it was fair to say that the introvert within me was struggling. …

Sometimes I feel the best way to deal with difficult situations is to turn to humor. A lot of people …

No, this is not something I’m actually very good at, but something I’m learning to …

“Resentment is like drinking poison and then hoping it will kill your enemies.” Nelson …

I don’t know, but I first started my current job. I had such a passion for what I did. I am …

There’s no point planning too much as I have slowly come to realise that life (and with that, other …

It’s good to take times of and to rest. We need to build emotional reserves for the times when …

This is a hard one for me to learn what it feels like over the past few years. I’ve put my …

The more and more I looks back on my easily 20’s, I can see clearly now how my envy never got me …

You are not in a competition with others, but yourself. Stop making endless comparisons to others …

… because they won’t accept you anyway.

For this reason you might as well cut your losses and just …

I’ve talked loads on this site about the importance of not comparing yourself to other people. Seems …

I’ve written in previous posts about the dangers of comparing yourself to others and why it is …

The simple story is, don’t do it. It never ends well and just leaves you feeling crap! Everyone is …

Yep, this may end up being another rant to post, but I wanted to get some stuff off my chest. This …

For my entire life, I’ve been a classic victim of the biggest scam of them all. I am a sucker …

I first heard about the concept of digital gardens a while ago, and I really love the idea. It’s a …

I’ve been meaning to create a website like this for a while. I basically wanted to spin up a …