I’ve come to accept that friendships can mean different things to different people and can look very differently depending on the person. Some friendships have lost a long time. Some are based upon a common interest. Some even based upon a shared life experience.
We cannot compare the friendships with other people because they may get something different out of it. You cannot measure the quality of a friendship based upon someone else’s standard. An Instagram photo or a story does not tell you the whole picture.
for this reason, friendships can vary and it is not worth comparing. just because you didn’t get invited to something doesn’t mean that your friendship is worthless to them.
It’s okay for your friends to be friends with other people in the same way that you are allowed to have friends with others.
EDIT: I realised that friendships change over time. Sometimes you grow closer to someone or sometimes you may drift away. Both of these are normal.