I believe what largely drives and feeds by anxiety is how I respond to uncertainty. When I am presented with a situation - of which the outcome is entirely unknown - I freak out. I have known of past experiences of when I have painted a picture of how my life should be and I have made out as if it has been completely set in stone and that is that.
Be honest and don’t lie to yourself.
Of course, there is the other way of looking at things.
I could look at my uncertain situation - whether that is with realtionships or work - and look at possibility and be excited. I have exposed myself to a whole new world of opportunities which potentially lead to new situation and opportunities that are far greater than my previous experiences.
This is how I should look at these situations from now on.
Be excited and trust God for what is to come.
Everything will work its own way out.
~ASP